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We Are Happy Together (WAHT) – IRL Connection App

How I transformed scattered social habits into intentional in-person connections through simplified discovery, interest-aligned events, and behavior-based nudges for shy or inconsistent users.

ClientWe Are Happy Together (WAHT)
RoleLead UX Designer, User Researcher, Product Strategy
Mobile UX Strategy Emotional Design & Community Building Design Systems Development
A group of friends gathered around a table outdoors at night, string lights overhead

Connection In Crisis

Challenge

Despite living in large, diverse cities, people are struggling to make real, lasting connections. Existing platforms push endless content, not community. This leaves users overwhelmed, lonely, and disengaged.

Objective

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Help people meetin small, low-pressure, interest-aligned groups
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Reduce flakinessand ghosting by giving users gentle, contextual nudges
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Make discovery humansocial discovery that feels human, not algorithmic
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Replace performanceonline presence with authentic, in-person engagement

Projected Impact

PROJECTED / DIRECTIONAL ESTIMATES — based on comparable app benchmarks, not measured user data

↓ 30%
reduction in event ghosting
↑ 40%
increase in small-circle engagement
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higher long-term community retention

From Isolation to Intentional

What's working — and what isn't?

People want community. People need community. But the platforms meant to connect us often make things harder, not easier.

Common patterns surfaced early

"I want to meet people who like what I like — not random strangers."

"I'm tired of apps that feel like dating apps in disguise."

"I bail on events because I get overwhelmed."

Vision for WAHT

Make real-world connection feel safe, easy, and authentic — especially for people who hate traditional social apps.

WAHT Problem Landscape

Finding a way to translate connection online to in-person and establish real connections that last.

WAHT problem landscape map showing isolation and disconnection leading to a gap in products supporting real-life connection

Identifying the Gaps

Interviews with four early users — Sofia (new city), Lena (introverted creative), and others whose event attendance was inconsistent — revealed repeating friction points.

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Endless Choices → Decision Paralysis

Users were overwhelmed by event lists that felt random and unfiltered.

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Social Anxiety & Ghosting

People wanted to show up — but often didn't. Not because they didn't care, but because they got overwhelmed.

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Unclear Body Language & Vibes

Dating apps commodified personality traits. People were craving real-life signals.

Insight

The problem isn't lack of events — it's lack of alignment, support, and clarity. Users needed a way to see "people like me" and "events for me" without performing for an algorithm.

Meet the Personas

Emma Thompson, user persona

A Social Butterfly In A New Environment

User Persona

Based on the input from users, I created this persona highlighting their goals and frustrations navigating new-city social life.

Alex Johnson, user persona

A Homebody In Need Of Real Connection

User Persona

Created this based on input from introverts also seeking connection, and their goals and pain points with existing apps.

Thinking Through A Solution

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Calm discoveryMake event discovery calm, not chaotic
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Aligned connectionSurface interest-aligned connection
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Low-pressure nudgesHelp shy users commit with low-pressure nudges
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TransparencyBuild trust through transparency and small group dynamics

Solution Highlights

Interest Tiles: Users choose interests (e.g., hiking, art, board games). The app uses these to surface relevant events — not random invites.

Small Circles: Groups capped at 6–10 people. This dramatically reduces pressure and makes interactions feel more organic.

Pre-Event Nudges: Friendly prompts like "Still in for tonight's gallery run?" (Not pushy — just supportive.)

WAHT opportunity map showing curated interest-based rooms, safety-first spaces, and small group discovery

WAHT Opportunity Map

These are the key opportunity areas where WAHT could meaningfully intervene.

Early Mid-Fi Prototype wireframes for WAHT

Early Mid-Fi Prototype

My collaborative wireframes that designed the flows and became the basis for hi-fi screens.

Questions That Changed the Direction

"How will WAHT prevent burnout for introverted users?" & "How do we support people who want deeper connection, not just events?"

In a feedback session with stakeholders, two questions reshaped the roadmap.

"How will WAHT prevent burnout for introverted users?"

→ Result: Added "Low-Energy Mode" to surface smaller, calmer events based on user energy preferences.

"How do we support people who want deeper connection, not just events?"

→ Result: Added Interest Circles — ongoing threads that turn one-off meetups into communities.

These pushed WAHT toward becoming not just an event finder, but a connection ecosystem.

High Fidelity Prototypes

WAHT homepage high-fidelity prototype

Homepage

On this page, users see events for them, community posts, and quick access to their circles.

WAHT new event creation page high-fidelity prototype

New Event Page

This page invites users to add the details of an event they'd like to host or join.

What I Learned

This case study reinforced that a great app can do more than facilitate meeting up — it can respond to real emotional realities. As someone who has struggled to go to events, dreaded them the week before, and bailed last minute, I know that its important to design for genuine connection. Though connecting through social media, meeting people can be a difficult and essential part of giving those connections a foundation. Helping to create ease can take a lot of thought and a lot of time, but if it makes someone feel a little less lonely, I hope it helps people connect better.

🔑 Key Takeaways
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Loneliness isn't solved with scale — it's solved with signal clarity.

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Digital connection apps need a human, not algorithmic, personality.

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Behavioral design is essential for reducing social anxiety.

Future Plans for the App

  1. Time Outs — If a user bails too often, their account will be gently paused on the app for a short period after an event, encouraging accountability without shame.
  2. Integration with larger events — Festivals, corporate events, and other larger-scale gatherings.
  3. "Vibes" Tags — Clear descriptors (Quiet, Friendly, High-Energy) so users know what to expect before showing up.

Try It Out!

WAHT is built out as a working prototype, so you don't have to take my word for how it feels. Open the app in a pop-out window and take on the four challenges on the preview: create an account, create an event, invite friends and acquaintances in the app, and browse available events.

The bar at the top of the app lets you jump to any screen. It's a prototype, so nothing you do is saved, and it resets when you close the window.

Some Additional Work I've Done

Original WAHT logo

Original Logo

In addition to the app design, I made some changes to the logo upon seeing the question "What does WAHT stand for?" Not only was the name unclear, the mark itself was too corporate for a community-first brand.

Revised WAHT logo

Revised Logo

In my opinion, adding "We Are Happy Together" spelled out around the mark and an outline of the icon made the brand feel a little less corporate and a lot more welcoming.

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